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What are you referencing as "unkind"? A lot of times people get upset when they don't get the answers they want, not because it's actually unkind.
Re-Posting This....Be Kind
Ok, just wanted to reiterate this message. Be kind, be kind, be kind. Doing so costs you nothing, not doing so costs others heartache. Go old school, if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
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Je
Oh yeah, no one supports those nasty comments except the unwell people who make them. They are beyond repair and won't change their tune. I just block them and move on.
Ki
@Jena and I'm not talking about those comments. I'm talking about the nasty ones. And I've seen them. I'm not trying to be controversial, I'm just reminding g the community about why we're here, to show support and to help one another
Je
I do think it needs established in order to have a productive conversation. There are nasty responses out there, but there are also a lot that get called unkind when they really aren't. Talking about biology or saying pregnancy symptoms can't happen at 2 dpo isn't unkind. Neither is say you don't see a line.
babes no one is required to be kind. the sooner everyone accepts this the less feelings will be hurt
ar
i didn’t say people have to be nasty i said they’re not required to be kind. if we all just assume everyone is being nice then everyone will get along better. unless you’re calling someone a bitch or stupid or something then why assume it’s not out of kindness?
Ki
Also, FYI, my screen name is Kitty, not babes.
Ki
Actually, that's not true. People don't have to be nasty. I'm saying have some compassion. Some have a thicker skin than others. It doesn't hurt to post with that in mind.
Also adding to be kind, don’t look to be offended either. It’s hard when it comes to reading something online and not getting body language and all to truly gage what someone means. Don’t assume they are coming from a bad place or trying to be unkind. Some people are more blunt than others, but that does not mean they mean harm in any way.
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Be kind and don’t take offense. That’s it.
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Like for instance how you replied to my comment. You seemed to take it as though this is a very deep comment. I was simply saying just assume people don’t mean harm. Of course some are just ridiculous, but the majority don’t mean harm! You seem to be taking my comment far beyond what I meant it as which kind of proves exactly what I was saying.
Ki
And yes, people shouldn't take offense to replies...though I must say, that can be difficult to do when reading what may seem like a sparky, rude, or mean response. Sure, online, alot of tge message is lost since its not face-to-face, all the more reason to consider the reply closely. Tell the truth but don't tear people down.
Hi everyone. My comment is my opinion. It wasn't to invoke a whole conversation about each individual's perception of "kind" and it not worth an argument. Honestly, if one is to argue about a simple observation about being kind, it begs the question if the certain comments are coming from a "kind", "compassionate" or "good" place, or if they are in fact coming from some place contrary - even if unintended. Having an open mind is a positive thing. To ALL, baby dust and blessings. Have a great day.
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