Have a hard time .

Okay I have been having insecurities since I gave labor to my daughter I used to be slim and now I’m fluffy but my husband says I look thick and better than before and i don’t know if to believe him or not , I can’t help myself I know I don’t plan on staying this way but it’s been a little hard getting myself together again after having my baby , anyway he complemented me again saying “ baby your body is so sexy “ and me I was like oh yeah ? Thanks because I don’t want him to know I’m still really insecure and I don’t know if to believe him or if he just tells me that so I can feel good about myself I don’t know I tend to overthink too much . How do you girls do it with staying on top of yourself i been kinda confused my mind isn’t there . I need advice I feel like I need more feminism if that makes sense ?