Idk what to do😭

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Okay so me and my kids moved to Texas away from my entire family about 7-8 months ago. I normally bring them back to my home state to visit my family. Everytime I bring them to my parents they will acknowledge the kids but not me. It makes me feel so unloved and a bit empty. Today we came down because we have two funerals to attend over the next week, again they acknowledge the kids and ignored me. I walked in and spoke with the biggest smile on my face because I missed them and they acted like I wasn’t there so I walked out the room and went and sat in another room. Well, my mom came and found me and I thought we were going to have a decent convo, boy was I wrong. She found me just to argue with me about something that had nothing to do with her. I wanted to cry because for 1 I’m on my af which I’m very emotional and all I wanted from my mom is just miss me too ig🤷🏾‍♀️ after my dad finished playing with the kids he said “get your kids me and your mom about to go” then walked out the room and told my mom to tell me to moved my car instead of just asking me. I’m not sure what I’ve done because me and my mom talk everyday but it’s just bad energy every time I come home. I love them so much but I hate coming home now because the way they are treating me. I can’t talk to them about it because as a child coming up anything me or my brother said to them about something they were doing to us that we didn’t like they attacked us and start to yell and flipped it on us so we just keep things in and talk to each other. Does anyone have any advice?