Let me start by giving a backstory growing up my mom was never into church and always told us she didn’t care who we date ect.. now her bestfriend got her into church and she became this different person with ridiculous beliefs. Like for one homosexuality is a sin and she said shit like god made adam and <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> not adam and steve like girl stfu.. she also says she can leave her miserable marriage because divorce is a sin 🤦🏽‍♀️. A whole bunch of other ridiculous things but i would be here forever if i said them all.

Well anyways my brother mistakenly told my mom that my niece is bisexual. (My niece is a 14 year old girl who struggles with confidence issues daddy issues and still learning her self. . Me and my niece are best friends even though im 29 and shes 14 i love her to death and i dont like anyone making her feel less than.) well anyways my mom’s response was un called for .. she responded with “ she better not bring that shit in my house” ect just acted like she was disgusted. Thats hurt me so i went off. I called her a hypocrite and that i cant stand “ church people “. My mom is always talking bad someone and is the first to gossip.. she says ignorant shit about black people even though her grandkids are black . My dad her husband is the color of a hershey bar so I consider myself a afro latina. My mom is not saint and has sin alot in her life. Like had kids of wedlock talk bad about gods children. Curses and yells like no other. But god forbid someone like the same sex thats where she draws the line 🙄. . Well me and my partner are considering starting a family soon.

I know i may be jumping the gun

But i been thinking a-lot about who I want in the delivery room and i just dont know if i want my mom in the room because its like i only want ppl who will except my child no matter what they grow up to be or who they like to see them be born. I feel like if your not excepting of all people you shouldn’t see my child be born. So am i wrong for that?