Long story short I been with a great guy for about a year now the other night we were laying in bed (we do not live together) and I asked him one of those curious stupid questions we all ask I asked him has he been with a female with a bigger butt than me and I asked him for honesty and he says yes I get a little upset but not much because I asked him for honesty and I’ve been feeling down about myself because I haven’t had time to go to the gym recently and I feel bad about my body well the next morning it upset me that he responded so quickly like it was something he had thought about before and I felt compared in that moment so I told him this is something you have thought about before or it is just extremely obvious and he basically says yes it was a extremely obvious different and he starts dragging it a bit now he’s never done this before and usually always makes me feel so secure and perfect but because he drug it and didn’t back it with anything else about me I literally felt so alone and like I simply wasn’t attractive to him anymore or couldn’t give him what he wanted I had a little bit of a ptsd feeling from my past abusive relationship and I told him I need time and space it’s NOT about the answer to his question because I respect his honesty and I understand this whole situation is extremely petty but it was the way he made me FEEL was just like my ex used to make me feel and it triggered my relationship ptsd and I got scared to feel like that again I told him I love and appreciate him but I need some space right now and time to think and he is sending me super long messages basically nonsense at this point and I’m not sure what to do it made my entire feeling tarwards him change the way I felt around him etc…was I wrong for asking for this space and time?