What’s your opinion on sharing your discomfort with your partner?

Like if you are suffering from sickness, pregnancy pains, upset at yourself for being forgetful, have a stressful day, ect do you keep all that silent and inside your own head or do you verbally voice them out loud?

I ask because I seem to have to always verbally voice my discomforts and then I apologize for complaining even if it wasn’t in a complaining type of way.

My husband gets stressed out if he can’t fix my problem but I just wanted to voice my discomfort and then I myself, do something about them but it seems like I shouldn’t do that? I totally get nobody wants to hear someone complaining all the time but I feel like that’s not what I’m doing at all but idk.