Advice and reassurance (sex after birth)

Remmi

Hi all, I just wanted a bit of reassurance or advice regarding sex after delivery. I’m 8 weeks postpartum this Saturday. We’ve attempted twice but it literally doesn’t go in. I had an episiotomy but my stitches and everything has healed. It only now hurts and feels stretched after trying to have sex. I’m just really worried things won’t go back to normal. How long was it before everyone had comfortable sex? I’m literally thinking I will never have it again 😂😅 some really honest advice and stories would be great. Thank you