I have a serious problem. My husband and I have been together for some years now. We’ve always had a great sex life. Like really good. As time went on and life got busy of course we don’t have as much sex as we nearly use to buy now it’s like he doesn’t want to do it at all… every time I initiate it he has some type of excuse about being tired or how it’s late. When it’s not late at all. He doesn’t even try. And the once a month that I get him to do it he’s having a hard time getting it up. I’ve asked him what’s going on. He blames it on being fatigue from work and the gym. I’ve tried to talk about it, but it’s like I’m getting nowhere and it’s concerning. He knows that it’s a issue, but doesn’t try to fix it. I honestly don’t think he’s cheating because our lifestyle and schedules. I’m sure he’s not cheating. He’s still very affectionate, and loving. He just has no motivation for actual sex. I feel like he’s not attracted to me anymore or maybe he’s tired of having sex with me or something. I don’t want to be the one to always ask for it and then get rejected all the time. I want the passionate romance that we had before. I know things change and people change. I don’t expect sex all the time but at least once in a while. Idk what to do and I don’t want this to put a wedge in our relationship. I’ve cried about feeling unwanted. Any suggestions? Tips? Does anyone else have this problem?