Completely broken and traumatized. I booked a private scan at a local place that allows you to bring your kids. My husband and my two children went with me. The plan was we’d show my kids the baby growing in Mommy’s belly and they’d choose a bear to put the heart beat in. I knew something was wrong the second I saw it on the screen. The baby looked small. Not much different than when I saw it last at 8 weeks. I knew what it should look like at 12 weeks and the stillness of the scan made me want to puke. We went to the hospital right after where they confirmed I had lost my baby weeks ago. I have no signs of miscarrying and have to wait until Monday to talk to my OB to form a plan. This is so incredibly traumatizing. Luckily my kids are so young and didn’t quite understand what was happening in the first place. I take comfort in knowing so many other women have gone through this but my gosh does this suck! I’m terrified for a D&C. I’ve never been put under before. Any advice to put me at ease is appreciated!