Advice with “girth” man? Ways to make sex less painful?

Question

So I’m looking for positions that help with a little pain during sex. I’ve been to gynecologist and things look pretty normal. I’m able to get sex toys in but not him. Techniques? Tips? Anyone else have this issue?

Answer

Lots of lube, foreplay, clitoral stimulation even nipple stimulation whatever works for you... Make sure to focus on the intimacy you're about to enjoy and experience as to not tense up and tighten up then it hurts worse and is a no go which is upsetting at times when all you want to do is feel each other. Go slow on entry and then slowly increase pace until you're comfortable. Make sure he's absolutely in tune to your cues as to when it hurts too much and he absolutely needs to stop.

Answer

Lube, Clitoral stimulation. The more you “brace yourself for the worse” the more thing constrict and tighten up. There is something called vaginismus. Could it be psychological that you are tightening up and sabotaging things bracing yourself that it’s gonna be horrible etc.

Answer

Size up on the toys and use lube.

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Honestly the only thing that helped was having kids. Once we had kids sex felt AMAZING. I mean it was always great, but could be painful once he was in because my husband is so big. Sex is better than it's ever been now. I wish I had some advice for you.

Answer

Do have problem getting him in or you can’t handle it after he is inside?

Advice with “girth” man? Ways to make sex less painful?

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