My boyfriend/Childs father drives me nuts with how often he wants to have sex. Seriously it not only gets on my nerves it genuinely pisses me off sometimes and just makes me feel like that’s all he wants from me anymore. Maybe it’s just my PMS but this isn’t the only time of the month I feel like this towards him. We have an almost 2 year old toddler who keeps particularly me VERY busy all day and night. He works during the day and sleeps all night. I take care of our toddler during the day and most nights am still up until 5-7am doing so🫠 so I get basically zero sleep, I am overstimulated to the absolute max every second of the day, completely touched out from being climbed on like a jungle gym, sleep deprived, thinking of all the messes that need cleaned before I get to lay down IF I get to lay down, needing a shower because i don’t feel clean and never get to take one by myself, I’m just mentally and emotionally burnt the hell out. My boyfriend comes home from work and almost always just immediately wants to have sex or wants me to give him oral or just anything sexual. I have tried telling him I am struggling so bad with our toddler and feel like I’m becoming depressed, I need a break, I’m overstimulated, I’m anxious, I don’t feel clean, there’s too much to do around the house, and he legitimately just doesn’t get it. He will keep hinting at wanting sex until I get pissed off and completely ignore him at that point because I feel like he’s not listening to me or understanding why I feel the way I do and why I am not in the mood to have sex. I’ve told him sex is mostly a mental thing for me so if my mind cannot focus on the act (which it never can) then I am not gonna enjoy it, therefore I do not want to do it. I already feel like so much is expected from me during the day from my toddler to keeping the house clean etc just for him to come home and automatically expect something else from me, it’s always my “last straw of the day” and makes me want to explode. He just comes on way to strong and way to fast and only wants to touch me in sexual ways, like honestly I think I would probably get more turned on if he just came home and gave me a hug or laid down with me just something simple or even helped me around the house since I’m already on the verge of tears by the time he gets home. It’s just too much and once he gets the hint that we actually aren’t having sex then he doesn’t even want to touch me at all, will go out of his way to make sure we’re not touching in bed like will even be petty and put a pillow between us to sleep, doesn’t talk to me, and just goes to bed. Am I just being a bitch or is something wrong with me for feeling this way? I know it’s probably not fair to my boyfriend but I just can’t please everyone in our household every single day after what I do all day I feel like I’m pouring from an empty cup at this point.