So my boyfriend has informed me the other day that he like to wear womens lingerie and he likes butt play and wants me to dominate him w a strap on. Now i’ve gone out of my comfort zone in the past when it comes to sexual experiences w him but this isn’t something i can get on board w. and I feel shitty but i don’t even want to be w him anymore bc of this. i don’t want him to think i’m judging him, but this isn’t something i’m into and i don’t want to be w him anymore if it’s truly what he wants. i’m trying so hard not to sound like a bitch but it’s just my preference and i’m not into it. I’ve tried to explain to him how i felt and now he’s trying to say it was just a joke to see how i would react but he’s shown me amazon purchases where he’s bought these items so i’m not sure how it’s a joke? and i also don’t want to stay w him if he’s going to have to hide who he really is or the things he’s likes. i just don’t know what to say to him, i don’t want to hurt him but i feel like i’ll hurt him no matter what i do.