So, a bit background. My husband hasn’t worked in over a month. He quit his job out of nowhere (which I thought was a selfish move) he said he was tired of it. He was a plumber. I listened and was a supportive wife or whatever but now he’s gotten lazy has no plan or ideas and we have our finances in order so we aren’t hurting money wise but he has been so lazy and annoying lately….. we argue so much and I often have to be the one to apologize for the sake of us. I am a student and was a stay at home wife so I’d do laundry cook grocery shop all the home things but now since he’s home all day I ask him to do some work around the house since it’s now the both of us at home. I don’t care if I sound like a bossy wife or whatever y’all want to call me or hold digger but I have standards and I need a working man. I’m not going to be a caring lovey wife if my man is being a bum. I do work not for money but taking care of us, our house, study at school (majoring in engineering) and I don’t need a man being a couch potato. We had a good partnership going till he quit. Now everything is so disorganized and out of schedule. I feel lost. It’s crazy. Yes, I was supported in the beginning listened whatever but look we’re adults we need to work things out and move on. No excuses.