Really tough pregnancy that caused financial harship

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I hate to even post this I feel terrible asking but we are expecting our first babygirl after 5 boys! It's been impossible to get anything for her because when I was 10 weeks pregnant I suffered from 2 large pulmonary embolisms. This left me unable to work and we had no help from our families. My Dr refused to write me as disabled because my condition was "stable" eventhough I was on oxygen and couldn't walk. It got worse when I caught covid at 17 weeks and pneumonia at 19 weeks. My husband has been working his butt off but we fell so behind on bills and are barely catching up. She will most likely be here on christmas and we still have a christmas to provide for our boys. Literally no one in our family is excited for our baby.(except my dad but he's moving away with his wife) We were doing great before I got sick and it's ways been a dream of mine to have a babygirl. Thankfully myself and baby are doing much better but of course im panicking to get things ready for her. Any little thing will help if you have it in your heart.

Only help if you can. I'd feel terrible if someone was going broke trying to help me out.