Need advice

I graduated high school and went to community college I had a boyfriend it was difficult to manage the college and the online test and work they would send home he was insecure about all the men on campus and worried I would leave him for someone going to college so I decided to leave, I stayed living with him and he didn't want me to work for the same reason and I didn't work I lived with him for a decade he left and I had to figure everything out I tried to learn how to drive in the relationship but it started argument about my independence that if I don't go to work or school why do I need to know how to drive and he didn't let me see my friends or family. Majority of my highschool friends graduated college and move out of state.

I'm 28 I moved back in with my parents I noticed majority of my family was disappointed I haven't graduated from university, I haven't married yet, I don't have my own place, I don't have a car and I feel terrible about all this! What can I do!

My mom was teaching me how to drive but wants me to learn super fast so she doesn't have to be teaching me driver's Ed. is also one week studying one week driving and I'm not learning how to drive in one week it's going to take a month and my mom is upset that I can't learn how to drive in one week I told her I need to go slow so she freaks me out when I go driving with her she's like let's go driving in the main road but I want to practice in this park first to get understanding of the velocity how to drive and understand things so that was in July it's October if she would just listen and we go driving slowly September October I would have learned how to drive already but we stopped the lesson when she was pressuring me.

With college I'm a bit scared to go I'm older about thirty and the other students are going to be just graduated from high school and the ones graduating will be older and I'm worried they will say why are you now going to college you should have already graduated. I'm worried if I can do college it's a lot of work.

I'm worried about driving for the first time and worried about if I can actually graduate college

I need advice on how to do everything how much money to save how do I get the confidence to drive how to love care about myself after that break up how do I go back to college what was your experience going to college and how do you balance work and college and the assignments they send home and being on the computer and reading writing typing is it time consuming how do you get it accomplished.