Ectopic or micarriage?

angela

Hi all. This is my first pregnancy. I should be a little short of 6 weeks but my tests strip has not been getting darker, and is now actually lighter. Yesterday I had some bleeding, I wouldn’t necessarily say heavy but it was definitely more than spotting and intermittent, mostly when peeing and there was some soft clots, so i went to the doctor. The ultrasound said one of two things- I’m either earlier than we thought or I’m having an abnormal preganncy. The blood work won’t come back until Monday to finish the puzzle. I haven’t bled in almsot 24 hours but I’m cramping and as mentioned my test strip got lighter since I lasted tested about 5 days ago. I’m honestly hoping a miscarriage at this point because I know something isn’t right and it sure sounds better than an ectopic preganncy. But I’m going into work today and every pain, which feels menstrual right now, has me so paranoid that I’m gonna rupture that I’m probably because of my head making everything worse. My sister had several miscarriages and she said they jumped to ectopic many times. Anybody have a similar experience they can share to get me through.ecotopoc