I usually don’t like to post on the internet but I’m desperate😔 I’ve recently started talking to this wonderful man and I think it’s safe to say we are both having strong feelings for each other. I’m really excited about starting a relationship with him and I think he could be the one. He says however he isn’t in the best position to be with me. He struggles with depression and tends to isolate and shut down completely when he’s in a rut. He say’s horrible things about himself which hurts to hear because I love him. To add to his depression he also has hemophilia ( blood disorder) that makes him sick and has caused a lot of interruption in his life one of those things being school which really hurt him. He says he wants to work on himself before he starts a relationship with me but isn’t sure how long it will take. I don’t think it’s fair to have to wait on him nor should I have to but I have many strong feelings for him I’m battling whether to stay or go. I could use some help and appreciate any advice.