My husband wants me to be sexy and kinky and talk dirty but he said we have sex like 16 yr olds. He says that I blame my job for not being feminine/wearing makeup (I love makeup) even though he works more than me (not true) and that he still makes himself a "sex icon" for me... Literally since I was in high school I've thought I was asexual. I have never gotten checked for why this could be but I'm almost never horny and have maybe had a couple orgasms. My husband is very cocky (obnoxiously) and a while back when I attempted to explain to him, he started saying he's made every girl he's been with cum and even got frustrated when I tried telling him what direction to go while giving head because it was apparently taking too long and my vagina and clit are sensitive in a bad way. I'm not comfortable with anything sexual, period. My mind does not stop to focusing on pleasure. But I have put myself out there for him and it's not good enough. Then somehow, I'm not trying!? He always mentions that he will continue to try for me after we have a conversation about it. Implying that I don't try... He is also anti- counseling soo... Idk what to do...