Hi everyone,

So I’ve been with my partner for over a year and since his been in the navy.

He obviously deploys regularly and I do well with staying occupied and not missing him to much.

The only part I seem to struggle is the fact he gets to travel the world, of which I wish I could do. I just struggle with knowing his having fun without me and the fact there are other girls around and bars/clubs he goes to without me. I know his super loyal but I can’t help but wonder if he could be with other girls. He is close friends with a girl in his department and I asked him if he finds her attractive and he admitted yes, so now I’m just ultra paranoid about there relationship, however we have discussed this and he has set a bit more space between them.

I’ve also always wanted to join the military, but as of right now since his in it’s not a high priority

I’m quite confident in the person I am and understand the navy life isn’t easy but I just can’t seem to overcome this feeling. His an amazing guy and I don’t want to lose him especially because I’ll shut down at times over this.

Any advice?