We aren't telling family this time, but all of our friends know. My family isn't in the picture and his mother and sisters did not react well when told about baby 3 or 4 so he has opted to not tell them about baby 5. Lots of "that's a lot of kids" comments for months coming from someone who has 3 herself and is the youngest of 5. They are halfway across the country from us and his mother is still not talking to me because our 5 year old yelled at her for not doing what she wanted her to do when she visited 1.5 years ago. She blamed me and is now to scared to speak me. They will find out probably at Easter if his sister actually visits for my oldest's First Holy Communion otherwise it will be a birth announcement.