When my bd used to abuse me, I would run to his mom because I lived 4 hours from mine. When I did, she would always take his side somehow. One time she said “oh just give him time”. Or tell me to stop crying. This happened a year ago. She would always make slick comments, trying to critique me on everything in my house.

One time I was at her house and my 1 year old made a mess. Because I didn’t clean it RIGHT away she started saying “idk how you were raised but women clean up after men and their child, you have bad hygiene.”

Mind you, I have OCD and am on top of everything. I was just tired.

At one point I was going to work so she would watch my son, for 3 weeks straight I had no idea she didn’t have a car seat for my 1 yr old so while she would drive, he would be in the back unbuckled.

I now live in KY and my bd and his mom lives in Ohio. He wants to keep him up there for a few days but I don’t trust his mom. Idk what to do.