So this Saturday my sister is throwing me and my husband a gender reveal dinner and she and my bff are the only ones who know the gender I’ve been so tempted to go on my patient portal and look at the results but I don’t want to ruin all the hard work that was put in if it was up to me I would have already looked and would have known by now but the reason for her throwing me this is because when I was pregnant with my son I went through depression and was in a bad space financially so we didn’t celebrate any of the pregnancy milestone while caring him but now her goal is to make sure I enjoy this pregnancy to the fullest my point of me saying all this is are you doing a gender reveal and if so how hard is it for you to wait for the results