So im a single mom of 2 but i have a partner. We only share 1 dsughter. Anywho. Ive had her since she was born. I tried to get him to help out more and he wouldnt. He would come up with excuses and do whatever his mom told him ( hes 43 btw) this resulted me in losing job after job. ..but he claims he loves me. Also bc im saddled with kids i myself cant move i cant work i cant do shit...and my parents berate me daily. Like yesterday I was telling him about what I was going through at home and I basically said if you wanted to move us in an apt together it shouldn't have taken this long. I felt like he didn't give a damn abt nothing I went through. He would always say I feel you when I lost my jobs and even agreed with my mom doing one argument saying I already had one child and was pregnant again ( his baby) but he was on my side and to not get it misconstrued.

I set up daycare alone everything and now bc his mom's house is abt to be sold..now he wants to look for a place to stay. Also his court date for child support is on the 14th and he's been super nice and asked me to go with him..

He told his sister that he lived me but her and his mom think I'm wrong for getting child support even though he did the minimum to help. His mom wants all his money going her way. I provided everything for our daughter and he just now is trying to do something but like I said court is around the corner.

Also tmi but whenever we or he wants to be intimate we always have to use my car or a hotel bc he has no place nothing for us to have our own private time.

It's very lame.

I've tried breaking things off MULTIPLE times. He begs and cries and pleads and will not stop. Also death of his bro and dad made me feel sorry for him a bit ...

But idk I just can't let go of everything..he just seems lame as fuck.

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@ Casey- I've been trying for a year and he won't leave me alone. Called from private numbers 16+ times. That and the treatment at home from my parents makes me feel like ..idk he is the break I need but I know he isn't. It's hard. ( i mesntioned the begging and pleading bs bc my parents arent the best either i deal woth verbal abuse every other day plus dealing with my kids..its hard then someone that wont leave you alone. You just cave eventually)Also I've done caps. All gov programs. My daughter was pulled from daycare due to an incident. I found a daycare but bc I make no money. I had to ask him and my mom for help. He said he had bills to pay. I called back and the daycare was full.

So I may have to enroll her on Jan idk. But I am trying.

@Kim- my tubes are already tied. Did it after my daughter. I already explained my daycare situation above I think. ( I did gov daycare the workers were neglecting my daughter so I had get her out. Her dad gave me no money to put her in the new daycare and the spot closed up. I've been trying)

@ Kim- I HAVE NO MONEY. I can't work bc of the daycare situation. And any money I've gotten that passes through my hands goes directly to my kids. I said HE chooses to try and get a hotel room for sex. He tried it yesterday I told him I needed money for our baby's daycare so instead of putting it twds a room put it twds daycare so I can work but by then it was too late and the spots were filled. I have no money bc I can't work. He has all the money. That's what he chooses to do with it.

@Realist- I have I'm on all gov assistance. I explained my daycare situation above. Child support is in the works and I think the 14th of this month they tell him what he pays out. My tubes are tied so I'm sterile.

@G.G- thank you. I' didn't know about salvation army. What's their link for the car? I'm on all the other stuff. And I tried the section 8 their list is currently closed right now.