Like what brings you two together, what is your “thing”? What do you guys do just for yourselves together? What do you guys do for FUN?

My husband told me that we don’t do anything fun and that we don’t have any particular “thing” that we do together…. It really hurt to hear that, but I couldn’t fully disagree. I think we’ve gotten so caught up in the daily routine of life-work, more work, housework, kids, responsibilities, etc that we stopped anything that is just US.

I can’t even remember if we ever had anything specific that we did pre-kids. We used to go out a lot, out to eat, shopping, etc, but I can’t think of anything else.

What are some suggestions on re-connecting with your spouse?

We’re not into sports

don’t have a lot of friends outside of family

have to find something kid-friendly cause we have littles,

Not gamers

He knows how to cook, I don’t

Movies are a no

I like to read, he doesn’t

Neither of us are super into board games/card games etc

I am religious, he is not

I would LOVE to be able to travel, but time & money is of short supply

Id really like to believe that we’re just two people in love that are making it through life one day at a time, but clearly that’s just not enough and it’s really hit me.

PLEASE HELP