Hi All,

Curious to hear whether your man is friends with and keeps in contact with other females?

A few years ago, my partner cheated on me with a couple of people and I found out he was sexually texting one of his exes.

Since that I have been so scared that he will do it again that I am constantly asking him if he’s been talking to any other women. I have t been able to get over it as I have never been able to see what is on his phone since.

We’ve been fighting a lot lately and he said it’s his life and he will talk to anyone he wants ( including exes) he never asks or cares who I talk to. He feels smothered, depressed and controlled with my constant questions looking for reassurance.

This doesn’t sit well with me. But I don’t know if I am being controlling, if it’s normal for guys to remain in contact with their exes and other females etc.

I’m just so scared that things will turn bad and his “normal” conversations will become a sexual thing