One of my best friends and I have been friends for like 10 years. In the last year or so, she has become very bitter and gets angry about the weirdest things, not necessarily with me, but all sorts of stuff. She doesn’t get along with her husbands family and has had a ton of issues with them. Ever since she got married in November, she has been having all these apparent meantal health issues that have prevented her from attending my bachelorette, almost not attending my wedding, and now what I need an opinion on.

I recently just found out I am pregnant and I suffered a miscarriage in June. Shortly after I had my miscarriage her and her husband started trying so in total I would say probably for three months now. I know the feeling all too well of somebody being pregnant and wanting to be so badly yourself so I am very sensitive to that. We have talked everything and anything pregnant since she started trying and when I told her I got my positive she started ignoring me. The next day I asked her if there was something wrong, and she told me very rudely that clearly I didn’t understand what her silence meant and that she doesn’t want to talk about my pregnancy because I’m going on and on. That I should let her know when I’m sure I’m actually pregnant and not going to misscarry essentially. She told me my constant talk of pregnancy was hindering her journey 🤔. My mind was absolutely blown. I let her be for a day or so, and then sent her a text, saying that I will never speak of pregnancy it again to her and that I had no idea this was how she would react. I told her a little communication would’ve gone a long way by simply saying hey this is hard for me right now I need some time.

Well, I attempted to text her a few days later after the initial blow up and she told me “it’s not like I’ll never speak to you. I’m just going through some thing and I’m avoiding talking to you.” OK then… It’s now been over a week and I have heard nothing from her whatsoever. I don’t know whether to reach out or to let this friendship lie but I feel like I deserve an apology for how she treated me. I’ve suffered a loss, so I know how it feels, but I would never give someone the silent treatment for their happy news, even if it hurt my feelings.