I had a mattress foam one I liked but my boyfriend ruined it by sleeping on it too much with me 😅 its very uneven now and no matter how much we flipped it to prevent that, it didn’t work.

I recently got a 3” down topper one that I have a love hate relationship with. I’m tired of my back hurting. My actual mattress itself is too firm on its own.

Does anyone have recommendations? Should I just get another memory foam one? Everytime I think I find one they turn out too firm.