So this is one of many times he’s done this. My SO was fooling around in bed with me (me watching tv and not really being interested other than him rubbing my back) and he decided to take his pants off. Whatever, I didn’t care. He kept asking to use his mouth and I said no. So he was just playing around down there with his dick (I didn’t want sex either because it was 5am, so it was kind of a compromise) and suddenly he quickly leans down and puts his mouth on me as I push him off. Too fast for me to say no again.

It obviously made me uncomfortable so I said we were done and I didn’t want him to touch me anymore because I had said no to that. He got pissy and said he was “just getting me wet” and said I’m overreacting and being ridiculous. This isn’t the first time he’s pushed my boundaries like that. Am I overreacting for feeling like it’s really not ok? Idk if it’s assault level but it upsets me. He acted mad at me for awhile.