That is what I’ve heard from multiple people and quite frankly it pisses me off. So a little backstory, I had my son from a previous relationship but my husband has been raising him since he was 8 months old. Also, his biological father is not in the picture in any way. My husband does and has always seen him as his own son because he is! Just because he isn’t blood doesn’t take away from the father son relationship that they share. My son is 6 and currently has no idea that they aren’t blood(of course we’ll cross that bridge when he’s older). He calls my husband daddy and my husband of course refers to him as his son in every way. We also have a 4 year old daughter together and I’m now pregnant. When people ask what we want I tell them that we don’t really care since we already have one of each and almost every time people say “your husband wants a boy though right?” And when I ask why would they say that it’s “so he can have his own son”. Like wtf are you talking about??? OUR son IS his son. “Well yeah but I’m sure he wants one of his own”. It drives me insane and honestly makes me cut that person off. Why can’t people understand that my husband doesn’t see our son any different than a biological father would?? It breaks my heart for the both of them.