Every time my boyfriend and I have a disagreement or even just me expressing something that bothers me ( because he gets mad about that) I’m the one trying to have a conversation in order to find a resolution or common ground. My intent is never to argue.

He’ll shut down and completely ignore me for hours (if it’s late even until the next day) until he’s ready to talk & sometimes he’s just so hellbent on trying to get his point across it’s like he doesn’t understand mine. I don’t like being angry at each other and letting stuff simmer. I’d rather talk about it right then and there. I am always agreeing to disagree or just taking the blame so we can move forward but I’m tired of ALWAYS initiating conversation/resolution when we are in a disagreement.

I’m starting to feel like this relationship is all about me keeping the peace and keeping him happy.