okay so me and my boyfriend haven’t had sex you.I’ve been having him wait and honestly he’s the most understanding person ever and doesn’t mind waiting.He has so much experience and he really knows what he is doing and all that.I’ve never orgasmed in my life and I genuinely have no idea what it is like.I’m confused on fingering tho.When he fingers me he always is rubbing my clit and honestly it makes me so wet.It feels good but at the same time it feels like my entire body gets super tense and it makes me uncomfortable and i always make him stop.Even when my legs are shaking a bunch I get super tense and tell him to stop.Is this because I’m about to orgasm or am I genuinely just uncomfortable.I like it to be honest like when he stops I regret having him stop but when my body gets tense I want him to stop bc my body’s all tense.I’m just confused