OB advice

So, I recently moved from my hometown and trusted the my boyfriend’s mother with an OB. I am currently 8wks and went in and measured 6wks on the dot. However, I felt very rushed during the appointment, like the doctor didnt even tell me i was hearing my babies heart beat. Didnt tell me what I was looking at or anything All he said was “well you’re measuring 6wks and the baby is fine”. So fast forward to all of the labs, I have had a miscarriage before, So i have been anxious about the lab results. Its been almost 2.5 weeks and I still have not seen any of the results except for negative std. It took them 12 days just to put that in my chart. It also says i was prescribed prenatals that i take once a day & have 6 refills. WHEN DID THEY TELL ME THAT? never. Also, it says im obese (BMI: 31.5 5’4, i usually am 168 i retain so much water that its put me at 178.) and we went over treatment plan to not gain more than 25lbs throughout pregnancy Lie! We didn’t go over anything. I am just frustrated and not wanting to hurt the moms feelings because he birthed 4 out of 5 of her grandkids but this just isnt for me. At all. How should I approach this?🥺😭