Okay so. My boyfriend and I have been together for a while. We have 2 kids together.

Things have been pretty off in our relationship for a while. When we moved closer to his friends and family our relationship got really bad. He started hanging out all the time. Sooo much. I mean we lived in his childhood neighborhood for 2 years. It sucked. From the moment we moved to the neighborhood it was his friends, from this friend to that friend to the next. His one friend had nothing but wife issues, always always complaining and his friend would medicate with whatever he could and go out and get drunk etc. he divorced his wife and started seeing new chicks. My boyfriend was the wing man sitting there helping him get through this. While I would be at home complaining, hey we don’t go out together, we don’t go on dates, your out until 7 am we don’t even sleep in the same bed anymore. I don’t remember the last time we’ve slept in the same bed at night. And that’s because he is never around to sleep in the same bed anymore, he goes out all night, sleeps all day and tells me how horrible of a mother I am. When I express hey you don’t show me any attention, your never around to sleep in bed with me anymore and you sleep all day, he gets angry telling me “wahh wahh boo boo all you do is complain, you don’t do anything, your lazy, your a horrible mom, and why would I wanna do anything with you? Than tells me I take his words and twist them around and don’t listen to the good things.

From me being so annoyed about being with him and him ignoring me for his friends has ruined our relationship and he is blinded by it fully. Now I’ve done Uber before, and doordash. And he wasn’t to interested in it at all. But lately the past 3 months he’s like hey let’s do some Uber. He wanted to drive while I got out and got the order and delivered it. Telling me that his job driving was more than what I was doing. I asked him why don’t he get out and deliver? He wanted me to, so at night he says hey I’m gonna go do some Uber. I’m like oh your gonna do it alone? Every single time he says he’s gonna go do Uber I already know what it means now, and he has an excuse, I’ll call him at 3-4 am and here music in the background, he’s chillin with his friend. I’m like how’s Uber ? Oh Uber was messing me up and giving me places that were closed (I believed it at first. But than it became a routine)

Every night he says I’m gonna Uber and boom oh I thought I’d hang out for a little,

Tonight he said he was gonna do Uber so I said okay take me with you. He said now? I’m like yeah. We get in the car, our son bit our daughter and that became an argument about how she shouldn’t have bothered him. And I said it doesn’t matter he shouldn’t be biting regardless and he got mad defending our son.

And told me know what this is it the first and last delivery we’re doing together. We did 2-4 deliveries and than he dropped us off. And left to go do “Uber”

He said he was leaving to go do some more. At around 10:20 it’s now 2:00 am and I called him and asked him how Uber was he said oh I’m not doing it right at the moment I’m chilling with my friend ( same friend. He’s been chilling with for 2 years and doesn’t understand why I’m about to leave his ass) I said oh how many Ubers did you do he said only 1.

Am I over exaggerating? Am I being a nasty girlfriend who just rides his ass for doing nothing but chilling with his friends ?

Thanks to the women who said that a real men likes to enjoy his women specially when the kids go to sleep. And that he hangs with his friends a few times a week for a few hours. My man hangs with his friends at night, when I’m asleep. Waiting for him all through the night. Than sleeps while I’m awake and has told me that when I’m asleep that’s his time to be away. So we don’t sleep in the same bed at night, he sleeps all day while I take care of the kids, than he wakes up and repeats