21 weeks 3 days anatomy ultrasound

Egerta • Tian’s mom 💙🤍

I need to get this out of my chest . I had my ultrasound yesterday . All started well , the doctor was checking the legs , body , kidneys etc . Everything was measuring a week ahead . When she was checking the heart she said that if it would be necessary, she would recommend a cardio pediatrician that would do a more specialized check of the heart but it wasnt like she saw anything .

She was checking the brain and the baby was moving a lot , looking like she was disturbed and she was like I cant measure her cerebellum because she moves a lot . I was like should I stand up and move for a while and come back . She was like no . We will re-evaluate this after 4 weeks at another ultrasound . I was like do you see the cerebellum , she didnt answer but asked me if i did the NIPT. I said no because it was not recommended by you . She was like i don’t recommend this to anyone but i just explain what nipt is . I said but you are my doctor and if you are here telling me what checks ups to do , I would expect you to tell me if something is wrong or if i need the nipt or not . ( correct me if im right or wrong )

She also said that i need to do the heart check with the cardio pediatrician and when i asked why she said its not that she sees anything .

I dont know . Im really confused . I ve been crying since yesterday thinking that something is wrong with my baby girl . I live in Albania and I found a greek doctor specialised in fetal medicine and only does anatomy scans and booked one tomorrow . Please pray for me .