So I found out I’m pregnant about 4 weeks along I told my husband of course but don’t want to tell my family for a while(can be judge mental) & I don’t want to hear all the “your gonna be tired now you’ll have a toddler and a baby” or the side convos etc & plus if something happened I’d be devastated having to tell everyone so I’m thinking about waiting until I’m 20weeks+ but i do want to have a gender reveal and a baby shower…

Has anyone waited this long & how’d your family take it?