My partner has 2 older children from his previous relationship and we have a 6 month old baby together, he used all of his annual leave up in July to spend time with his other children....all 4wks of it and doesn't have any days left, it's babies 1st Christmas and now he doesn't have any days to have off in between Christmas and New year or to come and see baby meet santa for the first time, he only has Christmas day off and feel like he should of taken babies 1st Christmas into Consideration before using all of his annual leave after all he does have 3 kids and not just 2 which is how it feels, baby doesn't see him mon-friday as baby is in bed when he leaves for work and in bed when he gets home from work, he spends every weekend away in another city with his other children too, he says I'm being selfish but I think he's the one being selfish

*****he only has a Sunday off and where we live is quite small and there's only one place you can take kids to see santa and you have to book way in advance which I've only just found out, they only had the 15th December left available****