Im getting a divorce soon. I already left. My husband messed up and I would not have probably ever married him had I known my secrets because it goes against my morals (and know its not like lgbt stuff. Its actually morally bad things). I'd asked him about my specific dealbreakers and he's lied to my face because "i was afraid you'd leave" or some bs.

Anyway I shut down his "I miss you" texts by saying don't text me unless its about the dog (I took one and he kept one. I miss that baby but I think its best for them as they weren't bonded yet and they get more 1 on 1 affection)

But now he messages me every time he leaves the house and when he returns home. He says its because he wants someone to know if he gets in an accident so the dog can get taken care of. I told him he should get an ICE bracelet with his grandparents info on it.

I understand why, but it kind of makes me uncomfortable. I've already told him I don't want him to contact me except the dog and now I get a daily play by play of what he's doing. I feel there's a better solution but I don't want the dog to be alone in the unlikely event he becomes a john doe.

Am I being high strung in feeling uncomfortable? He doesn't seem to expect my response but now I hear from him at least twice a day when I just want to move on after he betrayed me and manipulated me for 11 years.