Hello everyone!

My boyfriend and I have been struggling with household chores and responsibilities. He works 40-45 hours a week. I work 35-40 a week. He does not know how to cook. He is 23. Does not know how to cook. He doesn’t clean (sweep,vacuum etc) but he says he picks up little things here and there. He only takes the trash out and that’s it. He NEVER touches the dishes. The dishes could be a mountain and he won’t touch them on his day off. I change the cat litter I clean the whole house. I pick up after him in his room and he picks up after me in our room because we all get lazy. But long story short he does not do as near as much as I do. He tells me it’s because he works full time and on his days off he wants to relax. I understand that me too. But I can’t. Because I run around the house cleaning it and cooking because on my days off he says I should be cooking. So I do all of that. I have to ask pretty much any time I want him to do basic household chores or responsibilities that our obviously needed to be done. It causes fights between us because he says I’m nagging and I just wanted help. He basically just tells me I should be doing more because I don’t work as much as him.