bf is deeply depressed bc work is abusing their power over him. he was suicidal to the point where he hung up the phone on me and said he was going to hurt himself because he said he was guilty of hurting me when he was talking disrespectfully towards me while depressed. I called his mom and she ran to his room to make sure he didnt hurt himself in any way.

I called his family and friends to make sure to check on him so that he is safe. he came back and apologized 5 days later, but I decided it was best for his mental health to take a break from the relationship. he also agreed after I spoke with him because he needed to work on his mental health and spiritual health. he said he loved me and I said I loved him too, and that we would wait to date again when his healthy again. we agreed that we are still best friends and would still sit next to each other at church and that our phone screens of each other wouldnt change (I have him as my phone wallpaper).

we agreed to give each other space for a few days.

sunday comes at church, and he looks like he doesn't want to talk to me, gives me the cold shoulder and isn't happy to hear that I am doing things that makes me happy when I am struggling with our break. I call him later after church and ask him if he felt comfortable with me talking to him at church. he says it was fine and says he loves me (but I am not seeing it because of how rude he is to me) and doesnt know how to handle the situation. I tried to encourage him in Christ but he talks rudely on the phone, slowly shuts down and doesnt talk with me until I am the only one talking on the phone, and hangs up the phone on me.

should I leave for good and not even be friends? its messing with my mental health and I feel like he doesnt respect me anymore even though I am trying to help him