I'm having my third baby July 2023 && I'm just not interested in the idea of having a baby shower. My husband wants one because this is his first baby (my other 2 are from a previous relationship they're 16 and 8). Am I wrong for not wanting to do it?? I kinda feel bad for it because it's his first child but I also dislike the stress of planning a baby shower. I know that your supposed to let someone else throw it but I'm a hands on type of person and can't sit back and let others do all the work alone. What should I do??