My boyfriend used to complain that I didn’t have the kids on a schedule, that I was a horrible mom for them not being in bed early,

Now I have my kids on a schedule, and he walks in turns the light on telling me to put a movie or some lullabies on for them.

Another thing. I was cooking dinner, that I didn’t really wanna cook to begin with because I was out all day and picked something up for the kids, but I still cooked anyways. The dinner is sitting on the counter, and no one has touched it. (Anytime I cook he gets mad if it’s not done right away than never eats it and just drinks beer instead) anyways! I had to bathe my kids, and I asked him to watch the food “I was cooking and getting my kids to bed since they ate dinner prior, I said hey can you watch the food really quick while I bathe the baby, he said “what would you do if I wasn’t here?” I went to go wash the kids up came back out he left the food cooking didn’t even care and was outside smoking and watching videos.

Anytime I ask him for help, he just kinda ignores me.

He will ask me for my car keys and if I ask him where he’s going he will eaither say “oh my lord Jesus here we go again” or just say I’ll be back. Than he never comes back! Until he’s tired of chillin with his buddies.

We haven’t had sex in like 3. Months. He kisses me with the driest peck on the lip or cheeck. And after chillin all night and coming home at 4 am he grabs my hand to play with him, than gets mad at me for being asleep? and not wanting to do anything with him because it’s only when he wants it. It’s never mutual anymore, and when I ask him for a kiss “yes I have to ask” he usually says “ mimicking me” “

Can I have a kiss” is that the only thing you ever think about ? Can’t you do something els like worry about the kids or go to school.