So I am currently 10 weeks and 4 days or 5 days and me and my fiancé found out that my grandmother is gonna pass soon with Lung cancer. About 7 months ago, we introduced her to her great grand baby. It was my first child and I am currently pregnant with his sibling (everyone thinks is a girl.). My problem is she says she already fought once and it was to hard on her and she would really like to go be with my papaw. I have no clue on how to handle this and I currently extremely depressed and having food aversions and extreme fatigue due to the pregnancy and the depression. We are planning on telling her but i don’t know how long she has. We wanted to tell her when we knew the gender however, I doubt I have that much time with her. We would find out around the 29th or possibly before or after. The cancer has came back extremely worsened and she is now having hospice come to her home where she has my sperm donor dad, his wife, and my baby sister. How do I tell her without breaking down? How can I cope during this pregnancy with this loss? This is my first time experiencing a loss during pregnancy. Please help.