Help 😭

Hey mama's, I had my sweet boy on Nov 7th.

I'm 9 days post, and I am still experiencing extreme after pains.. and when I sit, it feels like something is being pushed up into me.. also, when I cough, it feels like something is going to drop out of my bottom and lady bits. Is this normal? I don't remember this with my other deliveries, but this is also the first time I had a baby in 2.5 hours and had him put in 1 minute of pushing.

My midwife isn't concerned, but I kind of am.