Okay so I told my partner I was pregnant around 4 weeks. it was his idea to not use contraception (were in a stable relationship with a child already), he was shocked it happened so soon but things were good. I'm now 8 weeks and he came up to me today and said he's decided that if we have a baby we won't have anytime to go out for date nights ect and that I need to get an abortion and he might be ready to try again in about five years time( I'm 35 now...🤔). He knows that I would never have an abortion as I told him this when we first got together. He said he's been googling it and told me It wouldn't effect me at all and I can just 'take a pill that magics the baby away' 🙃🙃

Also I think that Is a really crappy reason to have an abortion. We have never been the date night kind of couple and prefer staying in. So confused why he's suddenly so against a baby, he's said nothing the past few weeks and now this. I've tried asking him if there's a different reason but he just keeps saying it's not the right time. Like I'm already pregnant what do you mean it's not the right time?

I'm keeping the baby and it's up to him if he wants involvement ect. I won't ask him for money but I can't abort a baby. He keeps trying to force the issue and I'm not sure what to do...