I am pregnant with my second child and I have decided not to invite anyone to see the baby for at least a couple days or however long I need after baby arrives. After my first we stayed 2 days in the hospital and I was so exhausted and finally happy to be going home with my baby.. 10 minutes of being home and my in laws came in the house without even being invited😥 mother in law brought food that she made and I was very thankful for that but they ended up staying for 2 hours!!! Mind you when they came over they decided to call their daughter and anyone else to come and see the baby without letting me know. So more people came over. I was more sad than I was mad and I was just truly exhausted and I’m so much pain. They kept saying how they were going to leave every 20 minutes but stayed 2 hours. My mother who I actually invited over to come when we got home from the hospital didn’t even stay that long!!!!! She knew I needed rest so she left and only stayed for 30 minutes. My dad as well only stayed 20 minutes cuz he knew having anyone over is hard during the first few weeks. This time we won’t tell anyone when we will be coming home and if anyone is dropping off food than you can drop it off when we are away in the hospital on our porch. We live very close to the hospital so my husband would be able to stop by home anytime with out being away for too long. I am very thankful for my in laws but this is one thing I am changing once we have our sexond