Okay so to start with I can orgasm by myself with no issue at all. My trouble is that my boyfriend cannot get me off. I get all the right feelings and everything he does feels amazing but I just don't have the feeling of an orgasm and every time I just end up telling my bf to give up cos his fingers hurt 😂 The same thing happened with my previous boyfriend which is why I know its an issue with me and not them. Every time my bf and I have "sexy" time, i get him off pretty quickly but I either have to finish myself off or I just don't bother at all. Is this normal? I've never had an orgasm that wasn't caused by myself