I have never had an orgasam

(Female) I know how to fake it that’s for sure I’ve attempted a vibrator but maybe i didnt use it right. I just know that during sex ur supposed to feel something anything and all I’ve ever felt was te sensation of the penetration I say sensation because its not always painful eventually its just the penetration and its like ok. I dont see how sex is like omg I just do it to do it unless im drunk then im ok lets make out I feel like I get more out of making out even when I have given head im just let like (hurryy the fuck up hurry the fuck up) I want to tingle all over I want to feel the release I just dont know how