She is having trouble conceiving she had been trying off and on for 3 years.

Now she makes everything into an argument and I understand she is having trouble and I’m very sensitive to the subject so I never bring it up

But today enough was enough we was packing baby boy suitcase for him to go off for a week and I originally told her to put the medicine in the front zipper when she came back into the room she handed me the medicine and I put those huge bottles of vitamins inside his suitcase on the corner so I could put his gloves and slippers and beanies in the front zipper I didn’t want those things on top of his clothes.

Oh she blew up on me saying everything is done my way and it’s obvious it’s not her son and she tired of doing everything according to me and honestly I don’t know where all this came from so I finally told her

I’m sorry it’s taking awhile but u forgot it took me 5 years to conceive to but I never took my frustration out on her n I told her everything doesn’t have to be an argument.

She says yes it took u five years but u no longer understand because u have a kid now n I swear that’s the dumbest shot I ever heard since it did take me 5 years I absolutely understand what u are dealing with but that’s still not a reason to blame me for everything

I swear I can even make a Turkey sandwich right

For instance yesterday we was grocery shopping and she walked off so I continued shopping she yelled at me in the store saying how selfish I am n I never considered her all because I bout honey peanut crackers and not sour cream in chives but we like both I was shopping for a 3 family household without a list n she was off talking to her aunt buying something for her aunt I just got what

I remembered I wasn’t being selfish so I didn’t think it matters I was so hurt she kept nagging in my ear all the way through the store so finally I snapped n I told her stop complaining in my ear.

We been together 11 years now but I’m so tired I’m not saying it’s always her but all this nagging and complaining I can’t take it ignoring her doesn’t work either

She calls me immature when I get quiet but I don’t know what else to do

Thanks for listening to my rant