Am I overthinking this or would you be upset as well?

My husband and I met up with his grandmother about a week ago and he was showing her my “bump” and she says straight to my face “you would never know she has always been heavyset”. I had to just walk away from her.

His grandmother and mom has thrown comments around about my weight in the past but this time It really hurt worse than the others. I didn’t say anything to her and I asked my husband not to say anything either.

I can’t bring myself to forgive that comment. Not this time. I feel like it’s different. I’m a FTM who has struggled for almost 5 years to become pregnant after I’ve been told by several doctors that I wouldn’t be able to have kids. It was definitely a surprise I found out on Oct 23rd and am due Jan 31st.

I feel like her knowing these things and this being a sensitive subject anyways that the least she could have done is to keep her comment to herself.