Would you decide to not decorate either?
So this’ll be a bit of a weird story 🤣🤷🏼♀️. My parents got divorced when I was 16 almost 17, it was pretty nasty and she abused me for years. I continued to live with my dad eventually I met my boyfriend(now fiancé) and he moved in with my dad and I. Now here we are 6 years later we still live with my dad and we have a daughter plus I am pregnant with our second! We have been given the chance to live on the land in our own home he’s building. Last year my mom and dad got back together and it has been a learning process for all of us especially me. She has just gotten spine surgery and is still in the hospital doing rehabilitation to recover before coming home and she asked me if I’d decorate for Christmas and has given me “free roam” to decorate with her stuff and I was SOOOO excited about that! She consistently told me how much she appreciates me doing this for her and I’m more than happy. Now I put free roam in quotes because as I started decorating last night I finished up quite a bit, felt proud, and decided to give her a FaceTime to show her what I’ve created in which she stated I needed to take it all down, she did not like it. I’m feeling defeated…I’m tired with a toddler and pregnancy but also quite confused on how I have “free roam” yet I’m getting told how much she hates it, how outdated her decor is and she’s demanding I go shopping for Christmas decor. Mind you I also have to pack up fall decor outside and then put Christmas up outside, dust, sweep, vacuum, and mop. Whatever I do it isn’t enough. Would you just stop trying?
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